recently re-ran across this quote from janeane garofalo from her book (co-written with ben stiller) feel this book: an essential guide to self-empowerment, spiritual supremacy, and sexual satisfaction. the book itself is pretty mediocre, but there are some good quotes:

"Many people feel that mass acceptance and smooth socialization are desirable life paths for a young adult ... Many people are often wrong ... Don't bother being nice. Being popular and well liked is not in your best interest. Let me be more clear; if you behave in a manner pleasing to most, then you are probably doing something wrong. The masses have never been arbiters of the sublime, and they often fail to recognize the truly great individual. Taking into account the public's regrettable lack of taste, it is incumbent upon you not to fit in."